Date
18 November 2024

Support friendships with structured approaches

Suggestion for implementing the strategy ‘Supporting and strengthening peer relationships’

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Circle of friends

Circle of friends

Creating a student support network.

A teacher shares how she uses the Circle of Friends strategy to tackle challenging behaviour and promote inclusion in year 7.

Develop buddy systems

Develop buddy systems

Use buddy systems to promote social skills.

  • Buddies are given training on how to help students develop specific skills, such as recreation, social, and communication skills.
  • Buddy systems result in personal growth for non-disabled peers.
  • To promote high quality interactions, students should also have opportunities to interact in activities that are not always instructional.

Utilise peer support

Utilise peer support

Ben has ASD. He needs support with communication skills. His circle of friends and teachers model and explain how the group works for him.

Facilitate friendships

Facilitate friendships

Friendships are an important foundation in an inclusive classroom.

Some strategies to create and maintain friendships.

  • Identify interests – Allow learners to express their interests through discussion, surveys, games, and clubs to help them discover other students who are like-minded.
  • Highlight strengths – Highlight student strengths to help learners to feel valued and confident among their peers.
  • Emphasise social skills – Embed opportunities to teach social skills in the curriculum, for example, in games, problem-solving activities, class meetings or discussions.
  • Provide opportunities –  Encourage friendships through social opportunities such as play, group work, class trips or school-wide activity days.

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Useful resources

Useful resources

Website

Circle of friends: A type of person-centered planning

This explains how to set up a circle of friends.

Publisher: Friendship Circle Special Needs Resource Blog

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Primary SEN – Circle of friends – Ben

Ben, his circle of friends and his teachers model and explain how the group works for him in this 13-minute video clip.

Publisher: FAM UK Enterprises

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Springboards 2 Practice: Friendship

Teacher strategies for supporting students with disabilities to make friends are outlined in this Ministry of Education publication, from the Springboards 2 Practice series.

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